Does a person's appearance count?

Everyone is on their own path and some people have more frequent bumps than others. Learning how people live their lives, what they eat, how they exercise, the style in which they communicate are the best indicators for if you are compatible with this person. 

For me personally:
It's important to be physically attracted to someone "smell, sight, touch, taste ;)" But on top of that, you have to love who they are not what they are. 

I'm mainly turned on by intelligence, overall intelligence. This is where the looks do come into play, if I am working hard to stay healthy and physically in shape, then I want my partner to do so, as well. Good habits take time to develop, so I look at the way a person organizes their life, their emotional maturity, their spiritual connection and their analytical mind.
 Humans are complex and it's important to find someone at or close to your level, on most aspects of life. It's the combination of similarities and differences that help relationships and one another grow. 

Conclusion:
Looks matter if you can analyze why someone looks a certain way, which takes time. Your body doesn't always reflect your mind. If the perception of that other person is so one dimensional, you can't accurately see anything in correct proportion. Judging someone based off of first impressions will leave you isolated and jaded in the end. 

You're stronger than your wounds!

                If you have scars, be proud of them. They signify that you survived a painful ordeal and are smarter because of that event. 

• When you see scars remember that your physical pain is healed. 
• Show them off, tell the stories.
•  This media obsession with perfection doesn't help anyone and is shallow. 
• Because our lines and spots say the life we've lived, and we shouldn't feel bad about the path we've taken. 

What's important is now! 

These scars I have surgical, acid, falling off cliffs I am empowered by them. The pain whether it's internal or external learn from it but don't hold on to it, stress can kill you remember! 

So kiss your wounds and move on. If you're still healing that's fine but recognize how far you've come and know that you are at different place. 

When I fell off a cliff. It's healed nicely don't worry, :)!

Today's Youth in the USA

Humans are curious beings and love to learn, but many school across the world destroy that love of learning. In the US capitalism has made people think that materials will bring them happiness. We are getting farther and farther away from community and nature. When we love ourselves then we can truly love others. Once we have self love all we want to do is give and help others. < This concept is lost in a capitalist society all though having options to direct trade such as money to hold pros. We need a more balanced society.

This is my reaction to the recent Toys "R" Us commercial. The commercial 

I love nature, I've been hiking since I was a young child. My grandfather was a forest ranger and one of the first people to educate and fight pesticides and teach people the importance or recycling in California. This definitely rubbed off on my mother who respected Native American culture and used that along with my father taking us into the forests to inspire the love of science and nature.

 -_'- It's sad children are getting bombarded by materialism crap. About age 13 I finally realized that things and being by yourself all the time can't make you happy. Then I started to make more friends and finally when I was 19 I learned to truly love myself (I loved the world but not myself and I finally understood that I am apart of this world and I deserve to love myself) and I finally found true happiness. The more we teach kids to be selfish and materialistic the longer it's going to take them to wake up to reality.

Keep your childhood innocence while maintaining monk like wisdom.

Stealing is not Love

I watched a video by Onision and realized there are a lot people don't believe in love and that's probably because they have had so much suffering in there life that they haven't been given the gift yet.

Love isn't supposed to be cruel. True love is about giving to each other, for the happiness and well being of the world. To keep loving and giving for us to all heal and reach enlightenment and beyond. Stealing is taking from yourself. If this woman who stole from this man's heart and pocket book grew up, she would realize that by hurting him she is hurting herself and that's it's cruel and not needed. Life is hard enough, it makes me angry when people try to make life harder for others.

Check out this guy he is very talented and interesting person to watch and listen to. <not trying to sound weird.

http://www.youtube.com/user/OnisionSpeaks
http://www.youtube.com/user/Onision