Respect

Respect- Respect-something we should give ourselves always, and give to others always. If others disrespect us even though we gave them respect. Don't get angry, just move on because they clearly don't respect themselves.

I've come to realize even though some people seem really cool, interesting, fun or perfect to hang out with, if they disrespect you then it's better to leave them alone.
How can you trust someone who doesn't respect you.
It's too easy for them to lie, cheat and steal.

There are many people out there, who not only like you for who you are but respect you for it as well. 

Love, friends, and sex

It's difficult to find people who you want to be physically intimate with.
It's even more difficult to find people who you want to be mentally intimate with.
It's the most difficult to find people who you desire to be emotionally intimate with.

Being intimate means being vulnerable, and sharing yourself on a deeper more comfortable level with another being.

To find someone who you can be all three things with is extremely difficult. 

Isn't this what we are looking for?
Even for one moment, don't we all want this?

Someone we can hold in our arms and tell our deepest secrets. To be loved and wanted, cared for and not judged, used or mistreated?

Even if it's just for tonight, this is a dream all humans want deep down. but of course if we could have it every night we would give up the body we live in to caught this rare light. 

People are human, lets not forget we all have feelings, we all dream, we all have pain, we all want one thing.

People are human, lets not forget we all have feelings, we all dream, we all have pain, we all want one thing.

To be accepted and loved for who we are.

It's easy to get washed away by desires, to pretend life is only good if you distract yourself with sex, food, clothes, travel, work. But in the end all those things disappear when we die.

I've seen a lot of interesting profiles on dating sites, but this one really touched me. A cry for help that was so honest it made my heart sink.

I won't revile the name for privacy, but here it is.

"Well to star this off i have been on this site for a while now. Ive been on a couple dates, talked, texted, messaged with a bunch of different people. Ive come to a conclusion and since no other guys out there are gonna say this, i will....i notice that a bunch of profiles say "just looking for friends" or just "someone to hang out with" well ill be honest, none of the guys on here are looking for just friends. about 85% of the guys are just looking for sex, 10% are just creepers and the other 5%...me, are the real deal, but the ***holes and creepers ruin it for the five percent of the good ones. i mean of course just friends to start off but lets be real, everyone is looking to take it beyond the friendship level.....Its a dating site people hello. Also, i am a genuine person looking for a genuine relationship and a lot of the people on here it seems to me are just looking to play games with people, or with me specifically. i have poured out nothing but truth to people and they in turn say this or that,i like you etc etc etc, only to have them completely disappear or i get the good old "your a great guy but i just want to be friends." my point being all i ask for when talking with me is the truth. why lie, why message me if you have no intention of meeting me or saying you want to meet me then never hearing from you again? In closing recent events and frustration have caused me to lower my faith and expectations from people. That way i cant be hurt anymore. If i expect someone to let me down and they do, then it was expected, but on the rare occasion they don't let me down well then that is a plus. I expect absolutely nothing from anyone, Ive been built up to be broken down way too much as of late.Just be honest that's all i want.

I am Intelligent, Honest, and Genuine  "

Exist, to exist

If everyone just helped one person everyday, was there for them, cared for them, loved them, there would be no more sadness.

You are special, you are unique, and your here.

We all exist for a reason, we all exist right now, right this second.
We are all here, and we are all meant to be here.
We all are wanted, we are all needed.
Our existence is existence.
I appreciate all of you, and I appreciate all of your existences.

No matter what you have done in the past, what you are thinking about doing now, and what you will do in the future.

I love all of you.

I wish I was a super hero, I wish I could love all of u with the power of 1,000,000 thousand burning suns!

I wish I could take away all your suffering.

I wish I was less selfish.

But one thing I can promise is...

That no matter what happens, I will understand and if I don't I will learn until I do.

I will not give up on love, because it didn't give up on me.

I will not stop existing, I will change, and rearrange, but

I, like all of you will still be around,

Whether a star in the sky

or a blade of grass,

a feather falling out of the wind,

or a water molecule splashing onto the ground,

We all have a purpose,

don't forget,

and don't let anyone tell u otherwise,

you are important,

and one day,

we will all have complete awareness,

Complete respect,

for you, for me, for them, for us,

Most of all,

for the things that brought us all together,

thank you so much for existing with me,

I appreciate all of you and everything

Be strong, don't let others make you uncomfortabul

Getting picked up for an adventure that turns out to be more than you were ready for?

It's easy to just do things because you feel like the situation is supposed to go that way. However if uncomfortable feelings are arising it's better to stop and leave. Even if everything is fine, and maybe a little fun, if the whole time your questioning what your doing, or doing something just to make the other person happy but feel miserable...STOP.

Love, fun, friends, dating, anything in life, if something inside your inner being is telling you, no, LISTEN TO IT.

It's especially hard for some people to listen to themselves and their bodies. When the time is right,the feelings will match. Forcing yourself to feel a certain way never works.

Relation to dating:

If you really like someone, and you know they like you, GO FOR IT.

• Chemistry, passion, they may not last, so hop on that train before it leaves.
• Still be safe, think enough to not hurt you or the other person/s
• However if you over analyze then the passion will dissipate and the opportunity will be gone.

If something doesn't feel right, slow down or Stop!
 It will feel like there is something in the way.

• Even if your very attracted to the person physically, mentally, emotionally, whatever the reason, if something deep inside is saying, don't do this, then stop or walk away.
• Communicate you feel uncomfortable with the situation< if you feel it's appropriate.
• If they understand, great you can try again another time.
• If they call you weird, stupid, inexperienced, or any other non-supportive action or words, get out of there! Clearly the person you are seeing doesn't care about you or your well being.   

To Recap:

Don't rush things, when the time is right everything will flow perfectly. Love is easy, chemistry is harder, the right person for right now, now that's something to hold out for :)