Over thinking

Sometimes when we meet someone we really like we don't know why we like them so much. We might want to think of things we don't like that much or things you feel they need to improve on. But no matter how hard you try you can't help but be drawn to them, even with all their flaws. 

Throw your standards out the window. That big list of things your ideal person is supposed to have is meaningless. Why? My friends, you've found the person you've been looking for. Who knows how long it will last? But for this time in your life this person you can't stop thinking and caring about needs to be around you, and you need to be around them.

 For some this might be a few days, weeks, months or it might last years. 

Don't over think it, you like them and you don't know why? Isn't that the best part! It's because your intuition is telling you, “You need this person right now, and they need you. There is some lesson, a quest, a mission that can only be accomplished with this other person." 

Double Standard

Going out on the town, socializing with others I have noticed a giant trend. Men are become less aggressive and woman are becoming more assertive. This has it's pros and cons but there is a problem. Stereotypes and society expectations are not changing or accepting this trend.


If someone is "dating" then it means they are not tied to anyone. They are looking, searching, or just having fun.


Dating Woman, should be able to: talk and flirt with as many people as they choose too. Dress how they want, talk how they want and move how they want.

It's very disrespectful to say that woman should only be with one guy at a time when guys rarely follow that rule.

 If you want to pin someone down then proclaim a tile, a.k.a

• "Do you want to be my girlfriend?" 
• "I'm not comfortable with you dating other people, Lets selectively/only date each other."
• "Let's promise to only have sex with each other, but if one of us becomes very interested in another person, be curious and say something. Then we will go back to friends without benefits."
• " I want you, let's be monogamous."

If no such question or statement is made then you can't get mad or disappointed. Communication is essential, watch for body language and facial expressions to give you clues before asking open ended questions to discover if the person really likes you or not.