People easily confuse compatible partnership with romance and love. There’s a gaint amount of variety of love which can be found in all living things. It's our choice to see it or not.
When someone cheats, they are NOT doing so in a loving manner. Although you
might still love each other. If the person refuses to really explain themselves,
it’s probably because they are/is scared to tell you something, mostly likely
hurtful, to you.
Be brave,
being single is really quite enjoyable. Possibly you and your partner/s are not
ready to be with each other right now.
All the things you’ve said, I've thought about endlessly, why is
this such a heavy choice that I cannot make?
If you can’t seem to choose whether or not to stay with your
partner/s it’s not because you can’t make a decision it’s because you are
hiding from it. Eventually and sooner than later a decision whether to stay or
go will have to be DECIDED!
Although you still might love them and you want to be unselfish
and stay with them. However, in reality, by not being mature and
dilly dallying around the issue, your being selfish with you time. The longer
it takes for a decision to be made the more you risk burning a bridge.
With every situation in life forgiveness is important, please
forgive them even if you decide to leave.
You must forgive them, to have inner peace.
But I am still not sure, I don’t know if I should leave or not!
The thing is, it's hard to be alone and it's scary, no one will
listen at times and we have to use our strength to stand, but there are people
who are willing to help, we just have to let them in.
But eventually you will realize
that being alone is quite pleasant, and a great opportune time to reflect, and
take time for yourself.
