Timing, part one

So you found the right person, but at the wrong time, shoot. Timing can be even more important than the person.  

Strange? When we are looking for a partner, we are looking for a companion who will fit with our lives and persona at the moment. All things are constantly changing including our needs, and or wants.

First: figure out what kind of relationship you want

• Long term? Just for fun? For Life, as in, (even if your no longer lovers with them, you still want them in your life, because you still care about them.)

• How much time do you have to put into a relationship?
• How much energy do you have to put into a relationship?
• Is long distance better? Or short Distance?

 Second: Timing with the person

• How fast do you want to go?
• Do you want to be friends first, or go straight into being lovers?
• How much personal information do you want to share and when?
• Do you go by the Onion Theory? Or do you reverse it?<dangerous
• Does this person you like, desire the same speed?
• How long does it take you to fall in love?
• Can they wait? 

Timing is fragile, like a glass orb sitting on icy water. If the water freezes while the orb is in the air when it comes back down it will brake into a million pieces. The tide, jump and temperature all have to align perfectly to see the final sculpture.

Ultimately our subconscious knows what's good for us. If your with someone who seems perfect but, no matter what, you feel unhappy; they are wrong for this time in your life.