Can a bumpy road lead to a smooth pasture? Love is easy to obtain when you love yourself. Unconditional love is something anyone should have for anything. But when it comes to finding a partner there are conditions, not for love, but for support.
If your conditions are connecting to your well-being then there is nothing wrong with searching for those conditions. But in order to do so loving yourself and loving others unconditionally is the first step. Afterwards then you can see if right now in your life that other person is meeting you survival needs and you are meeting there's. If they are conflicting with those needs of making life more difficult, then, no matter how much you love them, if they are harming you, it's better to bite the bullet and move on, or try again later. What matters is the present. Staying with someone who is making things toxic can cause one to not search for healthier people.
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