People are human, lets not forget we all have feelings, we all dream, we all have pain, we all want one thing.
To be accepted and loved for who we are.
It's easy to get washed away by desires, to pretend life is only good if you distract yourself with sex, food, clothes, travel, work. But in the end all those things disappear when we die.
I've seen a lot of interesting profiles on dating sites, but this one really touched me. A cry for help that was so honest it made my heart sink.
I won't revile the name for privacy, but here it is.
"Well to star this off i have been on this site for a while now. Ive been on a couple dates, talked, texted, messaged with a bunch of different people. Ive come to a conclusion and since no other guys out there are gonna say this, i will....i notice that a bunch of profiles say "just looking for friends" or just "someone to hang out with" well ill be honest, none of the guys on here are looking for just friends. about 85% of the guys are just looking for sex, 10% are just creepers and the other 5%...me, are the real deal, but the ***holes and creepers ruin it for the five percent of the good ones. i mean of course just friends to start off but lets be real, everyone is looking to take it beyond the friendship level.....Its a dating site people hello. Also, i am a genuine person looking for a genuine relationship and a lot of the people on here it seems to me are just looking to play games with people, or with me specifically. i have poured out nothing but truth to people and they in turn say this or that,i like you etc etc etc, only to have them completely disappear or i get the good old "your a great guy but i just want to be friends." my point being all i ask for when talking with me is the truth. why lie, why message me if you have no intention of meeting me or saying you want to meet me then never hearing from you again? In closing recent events and frustration have caused me to lower my faith and expectations from people. That way i cant be hurt anymore. If i expect someone to let me down and they do, then it was expected, but on the rare occasion they don't let me down well then that is a plus. I expect absolutely nothing from anyone, Ive been built up to be broken down way too much as of late.Just be honest that's all i want.
I am Intelligent, Honest, and Genuine "
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