It's easy to just do things because you feel like the situation is supposed to go that way. However if uncomfortable feelings are arising it's better to stop and leave. Even if everything is fine, and maybe a little fun, if the whole time your questioning what your doing, or doing something just to make the other person happy but feel miserable...STOP.
Love, fun, friends, dating, anything in life, if something inside your inner being is telling you, no, LISTEN TO IT.
It's especially hard for some people to listen to themselves and their bodies. When the time is right,the feelings will match. Forcing yourself to feel a certain way never works.
Relation to dating:
If you really like someone, and you know they like you, GO FOR IT.
- Chemistry, passion, they may not last, so hop on that train before it leaves.
- Still be safe, think enough to not hurt you or the other person/s
- However if you over analyze then the passion will dissipate and the opportunity will be gone.
It will feel like there is something in the way.
- Even if your very attracted to the person physically, mentally, emotionally, whatever the reason, if something deep inside is saying, don't do this, then stop or walk away.
- Communicate you feel uncomfortable with the situation< if you feel it's appropriate.
- If they understand, great you can try again another time.
- If they call you weird, stupid, inexperienced, or any other non-supportive action or words, get out of there! Clearly the person you are seeing doesn't care about you or your well being.
To Recap:
Don't rush things, when the time is right everything will flow perfectly. Love is easy, chemistry is harder, the right person for right now, now that's something to hold out for :)
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