Sunday, June 30, 2013

Cheating in a romantic relationship Part 2

Is it possible to work through a relationship where the partner cheated?
What if they gave you or they gave me another chance?


Of course once again, these questions can only be answered with...
how well did you communicate before the cheating occurred?
were the rules of what you two considered cheating clear?

If the answer is no:


It's up two the people involved to communicate why they though their partner cheated, how it made them feel. Then explain what cheating means to you and hear what your partner/s have to say. After communicating you and the people involved can decide whether to keep the current relationship and therefore lay down boundaries/rules. If the people involved don't want to be in a relationship anymore at least now after communicating everyone can feel better about their decision and know what to do for the next romantic partner/s they are with in the future. 

If the answer is yes: 

Usually people cheat because they are too chicken to end a relationship, which is not only cowardly and insulting to the definition of being an adult, but is irresponsible and in considerate of their partner/s. If you don't want to be with someone anymore talk about, write a letter, something! (not text message or social networking) 

It hurts less to be honest and end things then to cheat!
Who cheated? Did you ask them why?
Because no matter how drunk you are or high you can still think rationally. Unless the rules are too strict
There are so many souls on this planet to meet. If it's time to part, it's time.
How do I know if it's time? Pain is telling you it's time.

Will we meet again, or is it over for good? Love, will tell you whether or not there are still things left, if they are then you will meet again, but not necessarily has lovers. It's your life, but sometimes fate has more control than we can ever hope to imagine.

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