When one learns to love themselves and the world around them it's easy to fall in love with people. But sometimes you fall in love romantically with a person that's difficult to be with. Either they are gone all the time, your really busy or the two of you live far apart from each other.
Should you never talk to them again?
No, if they are really special to you then they should stay in your life. A person can try after communicating with each-other, about the difficulty of the situation and decide to just be friends for the time being or be romantic only when they are around while looking for someone else, or be in an open relationship.
Or it can be better to just fall out of love with them and stay friends. <sounds difficult but here are some ways to keep one or both from getting "hot and bothered"
Don't sleep over
Do things in the day
Don't go to possible romantic spots
Hang out with your friends with them or in a group
Talk less or more depending on how you two feel
We are capable of loving so much, don't limit yourself, if the two of you are honest and respectful there will be a way that the two of you can still be in each others lives regardless of the difficult situation. Real friends last forever no matter how much time and space is between them.
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