The first date can be a huge hurdle to get through. There is so much you want to learn about the other person but you have to do it in a way that they don’t realize your analyzing everything about them. This can be done by picking a date where your having fun, with no pressure, and opportunities to see your date act around other people and solo with you.
Good First Date Ideas:
- A concert with a band you really like, and they like as well.
- Going out for drinks where there is live music
- An art showing/gallery
- Hiking, or another outdoor activity you share in common
- Meeting for coffee in the late afternoon (with time to spare if you want to make the date longer ;) )
Things you should find out on the first date if you serious
- Some political beliefs
- Kids, want them, don’t, maybe in the future,
- Life styles, health and fitness
- How close you are with family
^ the things above are crazy hard to get to, if you can’t sneak them into the conversation then it’s okay. Try to get at least one or two of them, lifestyle is easy. The second and third date could be a way to find out about the others.
Lets be honest, even if your not looking for something too serious the above information can get in the way. So it’s better earlier or than later to find out about them.
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