When your in a relationship with someone, people have different expectations. Some people want someone just for sex, others just for conversation, to get the job done as in a coworker or employee, learn or teach, or just someone to do fun activities with like surfing or bird watching. With all relationships there is ways to build them up or tare them down.
- lieing, cheating, stealing.
- not being on time for appointments many times in a row.
- over reacting over little things.
- Selectively listening to what the say.
- ignoring them
- Being honest,
- Being there for them, keeping promises,
- understanding them, trying to put yourself in their shoes,
- Actively listening as much as possible.
- doing little things like making them tea when they are sad-big things, going to visit them where ever they are to make them feel safe.
- telling/showing them how much you appreciate them, and being with them.
Remember we are all human, we all make mistakes, we all suffer, and we all experience every emotion from heart broken to joy. Life is changing and so are people, so keep your heart, and especially communication open; happiness, and love will always find it's way in.
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